Wise individuals argue that circumstances push people to the brink of despair. By implication, that expecting the uncontrolled behavior culminating in looting and destruction of property is normal. Yes, riots stemming from the death of a black man by police have once again pushed people of color, namely African Americans, to the edge. But does this mean that loss of property is the inevitable consequence? Should the rest of the nation just stand aside and see these young avengers vent their anger onto the most obvious symbols of prosperity? Or, should we support what we know is the sensible response: condemn what led to the behavior but likewise denounce the destructive impulses. At what point do we say: we failed the young! Failed not only in having not bent the curve of racism but in not teaching them how to act as enlightened human beings. Should we place greater expectations on our progeny then that they will explode in rage and tear up the community?
My contemporaries, despite the progress, didn’t undo the hundreds of years of institutionalized and innate racism that rebirths each generation. We tried every conventional mean to dampen the history and impulses that give rise to racist behavior. From changes in education, laws, moral teachings, awareness, punishment and other typical efforts. None has worked as expected. The progress has been slow, inadequate, and infuriating. Yet, we know the true and lasting answer to this human condition—and conveniently ignore it! The question is whether we are at the actual edge where radical change is inevitable. Are we courageous enough and ready to take this understanding to heart?
Transformation
The solution to the human condition,
The way to cure the ills,
Is to be and act from love.
To love your neighbor as yourself
Is infinitely difficult
But ultimately the only answer.
To see yourself in the other,
Mitigates violent behavior
And produces empathy.
This love is genuine because it allows.
It is an allowing
Unencumbered by expectations.
The result is transformation and renewal,
The resulting empathy creates cohesion.
It is the only lasting solution.