Unblemished Grace

A Prayer for Ukraine

Whether in war or in the streets,
Whether alone or in a group,
Whether deliberate or not,
My aching heart reflects
On what it takes
To end a human life.

What cruelty, anger, and lack?
What unattended, frozen heart?
What distorted, twisted mind?
What unexpected fate?
Conspire to end a life which God’s
Wondrous goodness has wrought.

I see the twisted hands
Bound behind the back.
The naked bodies strewn
Among the ruble of disdain.
Blood everywhere,
Defiling our human soul.

The mother-child in mid flight,
Gunned down by a fellow being.
Thrown into the open grave pit,
Replete with hands and feet
Stretching out in silence
Toward our wounded heart.

My tears fill with anger and rage.
Despair blooms and I must act.
Yet, a helpless sense overwhelms
My feeble thoughts of change.
I stand paralyzed, unable to move,
And can only surrender to the pain.

I know the love my heart holds.
A delicate, precious, beautiful flame
That is extinguished when ignored,
Yet grows into a roaring fire
Of love, compassion, and goodwill
When attended and desired.

I know the world from this radiance,
And act in service of the grace it gives.
Thus, despite the brutality I see,
I find it worthwhile to remember
That the grace of goodness lives
Even in those whose evil is unleashed.

They act this way only because
In ways large and small,
They, their families, and their world failed
To nurture that fragile flame,
That unblemished grace of goodness
That gifted them with life.

I lift my voice in silent prayer
for such waste and wretchedness,
And offer my wounded heart
To the valiant souls in its wake.
May they experience life from its radiance,
And act in service of its grace.

Loving Kindness Meditation Invitation

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I am certain your heart is full of love on this beautiful day. Thus, it offers the perfect opportunity to do something meaningful on a global basis. Click on the URL below and join us in expressing that love towards others.

Torrey Pines beach early in the morning

Love Is the Only Answer

Wise individuals argue that circumstances push people to the brink of despair. By implication, that expecting the uncontrolled behavior culminating in looting and destruction of property is normal. Yes, riots stemming from the death of a black man by police have once again pushed people of color, namely African Americans, to the edge. But does this mean that loss of property is the inevitable consequence? Should the rest of the nation just stand aside and see these young avengers vent their anger onto the most obvious symbols of prosperity? Or, should we support what we know is the sensible response: condemn what led to the behavior but likewise denounce the destructive impulses. At what point do we say: we failed the young! Failed not only in having not bent the curve of racism but in not teaching them how to act as enlightened human beings. Should we place greater expectations on our progeny then that they will explode in rage and tear up the community?

My contemporaries, despite the progress, didn’t undo the hundreds of years of institutionalized and innate racism that rebirths each generation. We tried every conventional mean to dampen the history and impulses that give rise to racist behavior. From changes in education, laws, moral teachings, awareness, punishment and other typical efforts. None has worked as expected. The progress has been slow, inadequate, and infuriating. Yet, we know the true and lasting answer to this human condition—and conveniently ignore it! The question is whether we are at the actual edge where radical change is inevitable. Are we courageous enough and ready to take this understanding to heart?

Transformation

The solution to the human condition,

The way to cure the ills,

Is to be and act from love.

To love your neighbor as yourself

Is infinitely difficult

But ultimately the only answer.

To see yourself in the other,

Mitigates violent behavior

And produces empathy.

This love is genuine because it allows.

It is an allowing

Unencumbered by expectations.

The result is transformation and renewal,

The resulting empathy creates cohesion.

It is the only lasting solution.